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The aim of mediation

Mediation is a structured process in which an impartial third participant, known as a mediator, facilitates communication between disputing participants to help them reach a mutually acceptable resolution.

 

Moreover, mediation offers a cost-effective alternative to litigation, allowing participants to resolve disputes without the lengthy and often expensive court process. The collaborative nature of mediation encourages open dialogue and helps preserve relationships, making it an ideal choice for families or businesses looking to maintain ongoing interactions post-conflict.

What to expect from mediation

Structured process: Mediation follows a defined structure, typically involving an introduction, statements from both participants, information gathering, problem identification, and negotiation towards an agreement. This organised approach helps facilitate productive discussions.

 

Neutral mediator: A trained mediator acts as a neutral facilitator, ensuring that both participants have the opportunity to express their views without interruption. The mediator’s role is to guide the conversation and help identify common ground.

Confidential environment: Discussions during mediation are confidential, meaning that anything said cannot be used in court if the mediation does not result in a resolution. This encourages open and honest communication between the participants.

 

Focus on solutions: The primary goal of mediation is to reach a mutually acceptable agreement. Mediators encourage brainstorming and exploring various options, allowing participants to collaborate on solutions that work for everyone involved.

 

Cost-effective alternative: Mediation is often less expensive than litigation and can lead to quicker resolutions, reducing the time and resources spent on disputes.

 

Empowerment of participants: Mediation empowers individuals by allowing them to take an active role in resolving their disputes rather than leaving decisions up to a judge or arbitrator.

Frequently asked questions and answers about mediation

What is the cost of mediation and how many sessions are required?

The cost of mediation in South Africa typically ranges from R1,800 to R2,750 per session, with sessions lasting about an hour and a half. It is common for mediators to require upfront payment for the first few sessions, and additional fees may apply for specific documents like a Parenting Plan, which can cost as little as R1,500. The number of sessions needed can vary widely depending on the complexity of the issues involved; however, many cases can be resolved in three to five sessions.

If one party chooses to use FAMAC's services, do they need to go to court to have a mediator appointed?

If one party decides to utilize the services of a FAMAC mediator, they do not necessarily need to go to court to have a mediator appointed. Parties can agree on a mediator independently, or they may seek court assistance if they cannot reach an agreement.

What should I do if one party is located outside South Africa and communication is difficult?

When one party is located outside South Africa, communication can become challenging. Mediation may still proceed through virtual means such as video conferencing. However, logistical issues may arise regarding time zones and availability, which could complicate the process.

How does a family mediator differ from a parenting coordinator?

A family mediator focuses on facilitating discussions between parties to help them reach a mutual agreement on various family issues, while a parenting coordinator has a more directive role. Parenting coordinators are specifically trained to handle post-divorce disputes concerning children and can issue binding directives within certain limits, making decisions that are in the best interests of the children involved.

Can a mediator require that the parties do not discuss the sessions with their attorneys?

Mediators cannot insist that parties refrain from discussing mediation sessions with their attorneys entirely; however, confidentiality is a fundamental principle of mediation. Parties are encouraged to maintain confidentiality regarding discussions held during mediation to foster open communication and trust in the process.

Is confidentiality maintained during mediation?

Yes, confidentiality is a fundamental principle of mediation, ensuring that all discussions and information disclosed during the process remain private and cannot be used in court without the parties’ consent. This confidentiality fosters a safe environment for open dialogue, allowing parties to explore solutions without fear of repercussions.

What happens if one party refuses to participate in mediation?

If one party declines to engage in mediation, the other party may still proceed with legal action, but the court may view the refusal unfavourably. Courts often encourage alternative dispute resolution methods, and an unreasonable refusal to mediate can result in cost penalties or other consequences.

Are mediation agreements legally binding?

Mediation agreements, often referred to as Memoranda of Understanding, are not inherently legally binding; however, they can be made enforceable by obtaining a court order. To ensure the agreement holds legal weight, it should explicitly state the parties’ intention to be bound by its terms.

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